The boundary you hide becomes the boundary nobody respects.

Context

Watch one easy yes teach someone what they may keep asking from you until their requests look like proof that your needs never matter.

How it begins

It is Wednesday evening, and you are heating dinner when a friend asks for a ride across town. They say it is fine if you cannot. You say yes before checking what the favor will cost you.

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They crossed a line that never appeared.

Your agreement looked willing from the outside. Their next request followed the information you gave them, while your invisible limit became evidence that people ignore your needs.